Serious issue with symbolic links

I've been running Hazel for a long time, and it's been great up until a couple weeks ago when I started using Parallels to run Windows apps.
After about a week of running Parallels, I was in the middle of using Windows when the entire virtual machine closed down saying the PVM file has been moved or deleted (this is the file that contains the virtual hard drive and settings!). Sure enough, it was gone from my documents folder. Frustrated at losing everything I'd done on the Windows side over the last week, I resigned myself to just reinstalling it and see what happens. A week later, bam! Gone again. This time I had a backup, but it was still frustrating. I was about to call tech support for Parallels when I got curious and checked the system log where I noticed Hazel was the one deleting it--even though it wasn't in the trash!!
After checking settings, I was about to disable Hazel when I noticed that Parallels creates an alias on the desktop of any VM you make. I'd been trashing them because I don't like the clutter, but on closer inspection, it's not an alias, but a symbolic link.
Evidently Hazel is deleting the link target instead of the link itself! This is very bad. I use links fairly often, so if there's a way to prevent this dangerous behavior I'd like to know! For now, I'll just use rm to delete them.
After about a week of running Parallels, I was in the middle of using Windows when the entire virtual machine closed down saying the PVM file has been moved or deleted (this is the file that contains the virtual hard drive and settings!). Sure enough, it was gone from my documents folder. Frustrated at losing everything I'd done on the Windows side over the last week, I resigned myself to just reinstalling it and see what happens. A week later, bam! Gone again. This time I had a backup, but it was still frustrating. I was about to call tech support for Parallels when I got curious and checked the system log where I noticed Hazel was the one deleting it--even though it wasn't in the trash!!
After checking settings, I was about to disable Hazel when I noticed that Parallels creates an alias on the desktop of any VM you make. I'd been trashing them because I don't like the clutter, but on closer inspection, it's not an alias, but a symbolic link.
Evidently Hazel is deleting the link target instead of the link itself! This is very bad. I use links fairly often, so if there's a way to prevent this dangerous behavior I'd like to know! For now, I'll just use rm to delete them.